Getting Rich The 'Certain Way' http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net This blog covers the 7 laws of attraction and focusses on minfulness practises using the MotivAider Sat, 02 Aug 2008 19:40:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 en The 7 laws of attraction: The law of paradoxical intent. http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/08/7_laws_of_attraction_law_of_paradoxical_intent.html http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/08/7_laws_of_attraction_law_of_paradoxical_intent.html#comments Sat, 02 Aug 2008 19:32:49 +0000 admin http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/?p=125

This is the fifth article in the series of the 7 laws of attraction. The splitting up of the law of attraction in 7 parts allows us to better understand the workings of the law. Each of them details an aspect that we should take into consideration.

Today we continue with:

The law of paradoxical intent.

I think this law is the one that is used most often unintentionally by people who do not know anything about the law of attraction, and it often makes them miserable.

The law of attraction states that we attract whatever we put our concentration on. But what if what we concentrate upon is negative? Well, we still will attract it.

Let’s give an example: For years, I have been ill very often. And I have been looking for solutions in order to not be ill any more. And in this my mistake was embedded. I did not want to get ill, and so I concentrated on illnesses and … yes, got ill. But recently, I started concentrating on radiant health. On being in good shape and now I am much less ill.

Off course, its not perfect. Yet. But as I get more and more healthy, I get to be more and more confident in my abilities, and so I am more and more healthy.

Why is it not perfect?

Well, the real reason is that most people, including myself, are filled with negative thoughts, sometimes also described as limiting beliefs. To use the example of my health again: I used my weak health to avoid some responsibilities that I am afraid of. So I got ill to not have to take them up. After a while, this becomes annoying, and I started to hate falling ill. Now off course, I still have the habit of falling ill in order to avoid some responsibilities. And then I start to tell myself how inconvenient it would be to fall ill just now. And so I get more ill.

But once I recognize the pattern, I can break it. I tell to myself: “ok, if I fall ill, it will be like that. I will perform to the best of my abilities and see what happens”. In 90% of the cases, this is enough to dissipate the upcoming illness. Really wonderful.

Breaking patterns.

To break patterns, we first need to recognize them. To this end, a study of oneself is really needed. I do not believe one can get successful at the law of attraction without studying oneself. There are lots of methods on the market (like the sedona method) and I really believe most of them work.

But what they all have as a fundament is mindfulness. The constant observation of oneself. They do not always call it like that or say it with so many words, but it is actually implied. To learn more about this topic, see my post on mindfulness exercises and the motivaider.

Be well. Be rich. Be great.

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]]> http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/08/7_laws_of_attraction_law_of_paradoxical_intent.html/feed Long time no posting http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/08/long-time-no-posting.html http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/08/long-time-no-posting.html#comments Fri, 01 Aug 2008 10:19:54 +0000 admin http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/?p=124 It has been a long time since I have posted here.

The main reason for this was that I had a lot of other things to do (I changed jobs for instance) and I was a bit dissapointed by the lack of real online success.

I guess it is one of these things we have to overcome just to become really successful in some skill or business.

What made me come back to this blog?

First, I have an unfinished series on the 7 laws of attraction running here. I really would like to finish it (actually, the articles are nearly all written, I just need to publish them)

And secondly, looking at the statistics for my blog, I noticed that I was starting to receive visits from google for the keyword “mindfulness exercises“. At topic that I love dearly! So I started to campaign for that keyword again (I was in the 25th spot, and climbed already one). Furthermore, this keyword has a high search rate (some 1000 per month) which would really improve my visits (now 10 per day)

Voila, expect some activity again on this blog in the very near future.

Be well. be rich. be great.

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]]> http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/08/long-time-no-posting.html/feed Entrecard news. http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/05/entrecard-news.html http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/05/entrecard-news.html#comments Tue, 20 May 2008 18:16:53 +0000 admin http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/?p=123 Today I got the happy news that entrecard updated his systems and now allows to connect multiple blogs to ones accounts.
This was actually a feature that was much needed. I only have two blogs on the system and it was already hard to manage: I constantly needed to logout of the system and log in again to be able to drop for the other profile. The same would happen when anyone was asking to advertise on my blog. I off course was always logged in with the other profile :-) I can only imagine all the trouble that people with for instance 5 blogs had to go through.

But now all this has changed. I can now change profiles with one simple click. This will save me lots of time.

And more good new: the people at entrecard also released a free ebook in which they give a few tips on how to get the best out of the network

The 7 laws of attraction blog!

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]]> http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/05/entrecard-news.html/feed The 7 laws of attraction: The law of pure desire http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/05/7-laws-of-attraction-law3.html http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/05/7-laws-of-attraction-law3.html#comments Sat, 10 May 2008 18:11:38 +0000 admin http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/?p=122

This is the fourth article in the series of the 7 laws of attraction. The splitting up of the law of attraction in 7 parts allows us to better understand the workings of the law. Each of them details an aspect that we should take into consideration.

Today we continue with:

The law of pure desire.

This law is actually know through the literature in different forms. In “The sedona method” for instance, it is called Hootlessness. In Buddhist terms, it would be “non attachment”.
What both want to emphasize is that although we work towards goals, we cannot be ruled by these goals. Said differently, we should not identify ourselves with the outcome. If we do such a thing, we will start fearing a negative outcome, and this will impede success.
Detachment, Hootlesness, or pure desire is a fundamental concept.
The problem is that too many people rely on external objects, situations, or persons for their own self image and happiness. But as we have no direct control over these circumstances (the law of attraction is an indirect and slow way) we risk very much to get hurt. Because no matter how hard we try, we will always fall short in some situation or disappoint some people we care about.
The solution is to not identify with the external world and to stop all negative thoughts and emotions.

How is that done?

Simply through various mindfulness exercises. Through sets of exercises, we watch every emotion and thought pass by as a spectator and decide to act on it or not. We discard negative one (we let them go) and we keep the positive ones. That’s all there is to it.
But as with all simple practices, it is very difficult to carry them out in real life. But my experience tells me that with enough practice, we CAN do it and that it makes life a whole lot more pleasurable. Unfortunately, describing them is out of the scope of this article. I have some posts on the subject, but I intend to do a series on them also.

Be Well. Be rich. Be great.

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]]> http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/05/7-laws-of-attraction-law3.html/feed A new blog! http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/a-new-blog.html http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/a-new-blog.html#comments Tue, 22 Apr 2008 09:54:40 +0000 admin http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/a-new-blog.html

Just a quick post today about a new blog I will be authoring. It will be a blog about dreams, astral projection and astral travel.

Actually, I have been trying to write about these topics in this blog, but I did not find the necessary ‘content opening’ for it. I therefore decided to start a new blog. Off course, it does not have a lot of content now, but I hope I will be able to update it one or two times per week. And as this is a subject that I am also passionate about, I expect the posts to come as easy as for this blog. The only thing will be to find the time to write them …

Be well. Be rich. Be great.

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]]> http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/a-new-blog.html/feed New Dofollow rules http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/new-dofollow-rules.html http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/new-dofollow-rules.html#comments Sat, 19 Apr 2008 18:37:04 +0000 admin http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/new-dofollow-rules.html 5 minutes ago I changed my plugins managing “dofollow” on my blog. I have been using Lucia’s LinkLuv, as I thought it would incite people to come back to my blog. As it turns out, I was wrong.

Therefore, after finding this new plugin, I decided to change the blog to a full dofollow blog. So all comments are now followed through! And what is more, I installed KeywordLuv from  scratch99

What does this plugin do? When you enter in the name field name @ YourKeywords, the plugin will convert this to:  name from YourKeywords, where YourKeywords is now the anchor text of the link you provide.

I leave an example my self, where I will enter “Olivier @ 7 laws of attraction ” as a name. You will then see the effect of the text. Please feel free to use your keywords. The plugin is made just for that. But no spamming. Give an honest comment on the article, even if it is to never return to my blog.

Be well. Be rich. Be great.

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]]> http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/new-dofollow-rules.html/feed The 7 laws of attraction: The law of manifestation http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/the-7-laws-of-attraction-the-law-of-manifestation.html http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/the-7-laws-of-attraction-the-law-of-manifestation.html#comments Fri, 18 Apr 2008 19:45:57 +0000 admin http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/the-7-laws-of-attraction-the-law-of-manifestation.html

This is the third article in the series of the 7 laws of attraction. The splitting up of the law of attraction in 7 parts allows us to better understand the workings of the law. Each of them details an aspect that we should take into consideration.

Today we continue with:

The law of manifestation.

This law actually goes a step further than the law of Magnetism. It not only states that you will attract whatever your mood or vibration is, but it allows you to consciously choose what you will bring into manifestation.
This could range from money to a new lover of a better job, or even parking spot.
I would indeed refer like to refer to my posts on getting a parking spot. In this I told you that I am now able to attract a parking spot almost without fail, whereas before, I was equally able to make sure I did not get a parking spot, just because that was exactly what I was attracting.
On this blog, and others, I am trying to attract readers, and so far, I have seen steady increase of my readership base over the last months. I agree that growth could happen faster, but one should never forget to be thankful for whatever we get. Patience is a virtue!

What does one need to do in order to manifest things in ones life?

Visualize them!

See yourself in possession of whatever it is that you want to attract. Be it money, a new lover, or even good health. In this last case, just visualize yourself as perfectly healthy.
Want to loose weight? Visualize yourself with your perfect weight (b.t.w. I tried this myself, and it works wonders. I admit I only had to loose 5kg, but I never got around doing it, until the very day I decided I would get to my perfect weight).

One thing that should be kept in my is that all the 7 laws of attraction work together. So this law also works together with the law of magnetism. If you vibrate at a high level (be happy and grateful for what you manifest) you will attract it much faster. If you complain about not getting what you want soon enough, the manifestation will be delayed.

Be well. Be rich. Be great.

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]]> http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/the-7-laws-of-attraction-the-law-of-manifestation.html/feed My new entrecard ad http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/my-new-entrecard-ad.html http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/my-new-entrecard-ad.html#comments Wed, 16 Apr 2008 19:14:55 +0000 admin http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/my-new-entrecard-ad.html Jay from Scribbles and words is a man that keeps his promises. If you remember this post, where I announced that he would design a free entrecard card for me, well, he kept his promise. Today I got it in my mailbox and it looks fantastic. I already uploaded it to the entrecard server and now I present it to you:

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Let me know what you think about it.

Be well. Be rich. Be great.

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]]> http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/my-new-entrecard-ad.html/feed And the winner is … http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/and-the-winner-is.html http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/and-the-winner-is.html#comments Wed, 16 Apr 2008 16:33:26 +0000 admin http://blog.gettingrichthecertainway.net/2008/04/and-the-winner-is.html

Well, my contest to win a free ad on this site was not very successful, but there is still a winner. I guess I need to make more publicity for this kind of events. That is a lesson well learned. Anyway, I’m already glad somebody entered.

And the winner is: Cory Huff from a good husband. He also has a nice blog, so check him out. So Corry, please send me an email with your 125×125 ad and your preferred link text. I’ll put it on as soon as I get it. Congratulations and thanks for joining the competition.

I f you happen to just drop by here, make sure to check out my recent posts about the 7 laws of attraction, I will be expanding them very regularly.

Be well. Be rich. Be great.

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